Waiting on Love

Waiting… waiting… waiting… I want to know now, I need to know now, ok, I am done waiting, I’m moving on… That is what we do in the world we live in.  We don’t wait for the outcome of a situation we just rush off to the “next best thing” only to wake up and…

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Choices

Choices… “I can’t afford the textbook for this class!” I remember a classmate complaining to me in college. I smiled politely as I glanced down at her manicured gel nails and Coach purse and thought to myself, I can’t afford Coach. But I could afford the textbook, and so we shared. I think we often…

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Why do we over think so much?

Why do we over think so much? We, women, tend to think and think, and rethink what we just thought, said or did.  It doesn’t matter if you are 10, 16, 101 or anywhere in between.  We replay situations and conversations, wish we had done it differently and can usually imagine at least 5 or…

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Your Time to Shine

A new year, it’s your year to shine! So much can happen in a year’s time. When we start out in January we are completely unaware of the joy that will come, of the tragedy that will shock us, or the decisions we will be faced with.  It is what you do in those moments that…

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The Gift of LIFE

CHRISTMAS EVE 2001… She couldn’t believe how quickly LIFE had passed.  There was not much she would have done differently in her life.  She was raised to work hard, live with integrity, extend mercy to those in need, and live like it was her last day on earth.  Margaret, had lived up to the LIFE…

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Who am I?

Who are you?

Who am I? Throughout my life I have been told… “You are the sweetest person I have ever met.”  ” You are unlovable.” “You are so small.”  “You really need to lose some weight.” “You’re hair always looks so good.” “Do you really like wearing your hair like that?”  “You’re bossy.” “You really need to…

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Moms… they do what they have to do.

Moms… they do what they have to do. Lydia wanted her kids to go to a Christian school.  She saw the benefits of smaller class sizes, more one on one attention, and the value of being taught Christian principles.  Her oldest son could go, but she was heartbroken to find out they might not be…

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Is it Love… or Attraction…

Love or Attraction

Love at first sight… does it exist or is it attraction? I have been contemplating the idea of love for quite some time now. I had a conversation with a young girl not too long ago; she kept repeating over and over again, “A person can’t help who they love.”  Is that really a true…

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Before She Decides

Your girlfriend just told you she was pregnant, what now? There are 3 things you need to do before you decide… decide to take responsibility, speak up, and embrace becoming a father… determine to know the facts and choose your best future… dedicate yourself to supporting her and becoming the best dad you can be.. decide to take responsibility…

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Secrets… Confessions

A lady is telling secrets and the other lady is surprised by the secret.

Secrets; they can eat at you, torment you, and sometimes destroy you. What are your secrets… I had an affair…  Addiction almost ruined my life… I used to be a stripper… When I was 19 I tried to commit suicide… Secrets… if we are real with ourselves, we all have secrets, things in our lives that nobody knows about.  We have…

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